Some classic elements of bi-prejudice

General bi stereotypes

confused, unresolved, sitting on the fence, foot in both camps, neither here nor there, immature, unstable, should make up their minds, should sort themselves out
greedy, want to have their cake and eat it, want the best of both worlds
unreliable, ambiguous, double crossers
sex obsessed, promiscuous, indiscriminate, shag anything that moves, looking for a threesome, double the temptation; can't have platonic relationships; can't be celibate
spread AIDS, spread disease
young, white, middle-class, ablebodied, "It's a white thing", corrupted by Western world
exotic, bohemian, artistic, pop stars, entertainers, academics
it's a fashion, they're only doing it to be fashionable
it's a phase, it's not significant
on their way to coming out as gay/lesbian, haven't had the courage to come out "properly" yet, self-denial, it's a cop out
bisexuality as "homosexuality lite", easier than being lesbian or gay, parents would rather you were bi than lesbian or gay and hope you will settle down with someone you can make babies with
straight person dabbling, not committed to lesbian & gay politics, can avoid homophobia by hiding in the straight world when things get tough, haven't done the work and now they want the rewards
relate to men for sex and women for emotional relationships or relate to men and women in exactly the same way and have the same desires for each
want both a man and a woman, hence necessarily non-monogamous

Stereotypes of bi women

will leave a lesbian partner for a man
take women's energy and give it to men
straight men's fantasy is two of them
spread HIV from men to lesbians

Stereotypes of bi men

married man cottaging, the wife doesn't know, betrayal, brings home HIV
spread HIV from gay men to women
uncool compared to gay men, have bad taste because they still hang out with "fish", 100% gay men are better

Bi-invisibility beliefs

If you're with someone of the "opposite" sex, it means you're heterosexual
If you're with someone of the same sex, it means you're homosexual
If you were with someone of the other sex before, but now you're with someone of the same sex, you were "really" gay all along
If you were with someone of the same sex before, but now you're with someone of the "opposite" sex, you've "gone straight"

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